Creating Your Own Website Has Never Been So Easy

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Creating your own website has never been so easy. With your own website by 1&1 you gain access to loads of designs, layouts, graphics, and fonts, making it so easy to create stunning results. It’s a fantastic way to capture memories and keep friends and family up to speed with what’s happening in your life. With stacks of features available, you can create a website that interacts with its audience rather than just being a static library of information and imagery.

Some of the key features and tools available through 1&1 are summarized below. Further information on the various packages available and all the technical stuff can be found online by visiting website.1and1.com.

Customized Design

With millions of design combinations available, a truly individual theme can be achieved to reflect any personality. Layout, style, colors, fonts, and navigation can all be manipulated and interchanged to achieve the desired layout and feel. This doesn’t require any special IT skills or special software either; all the design tools are accessible online. What if you change your mind or fancy a makeover? The design can be changed at any time, and new content can be added via the online tools.

Consistent Web and Email Addresses

A unique web address can be created or an existing web address can be transferred to 1&1 websites. From this, it is possible to create personal email addresses that match your web address. If you don’t want to change your existing email address, you can also set up a simple redirection to your website email address.

A Massive 10GB of Storage

With 10GB of storage, you can create an unlimited number of pages without worrying about running out of space. In addition, you can upload images, videos, and documents to the site to increase the websites appeal and interactivity with its audience and truly bring the whole thing to life.

Downloadable Documents

Allow visitors to the site to easily access and download documents in a variety of formats such as PDF, Microsoft Word, Microsoft Excel, and Microsoft PowerPoint files.

Integrate Media Files

Bring the website to life by embedding flash video files. This could be a YouTube video, a personal video clip, or even mini games to enhance the audiences experience with the website.

Create a Guestbook

Allow visitors to the website to post feedback and comment on your posts. Again, this makes the website far more interactive to its audience and creates a two-way relationships with its visitors.

Visitor Counter

It’s no good having a fantastic website if nobody sees it! Know exactly how many hits the website receives by creating a visitor counter to accurately track viewing figures.

Social Widgets

The world of social media has had a massive impact on society, and you can utilize its power to grow your profile and increase your audience by including social media widgets on the website. This will allow people to recommend the website to others and get people talking about it.

Widgets and RSS Feeds

There are a whole host of other smart widgets which can be incorporated into a website to inform and interact with visitors to the site. Why not include RSS feeds? These are live feeds that update automatically to keep your audience informed on a variety of topics. This could be the weather, current news headlines, currency rates…the list is endless.

Protect Content

Create exclusive access to parts of your website that can only be viewed by certain people.

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Blog Roundup (6-14-13)

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The benefits of connections

IMG_4209No, I don’t mean “connections” like the kind of people who can get you into fancy restaurants without RSVPs. (I’d love to have those…but then again, we rarely eat at fancy restaurants!)

I mean connections as in friends, family, and all the other people who make us smile, look out for us, and make our lives better.

While The Hubby and I are basically homebodies (we’d much rather spend a Saturday night on the couch watching a movie than out at a club), we do have a close circle of friends that we see often for game nights, potlucks, and other fun stuff. Plus we’re both pretty close to our families.

And since I love thinking about happiness and what we can do to be happier, I thought I’d look into some of the ways that having good, strong relationships in our lives contributes to our happiness:

Less stress. At the end of a long day (or the middle of a long one), just talking to a friend on the phone can make me feel so much better. They make me smile, laugh, and can put things into perspective when I start to get a little caught up in the moment.

Support when you need it (and sometimes when you don’t). It’s great knowing that any time we need to go out of town, The Hubby and I have a whole network of people happy to take care of Big Dog and Little Dog for us while we’re away.

It’s also great (although it doesn’t feel so great at the time) to have people who will tell me if I’m getting all worked up over nothing or if I’m being too nice to the coworker who’s taking advantage of everyone in the office. (Drama not worth getting into.) People who will “tell it to you straight” because they care, even if they know you may not want to hear it.

Acceptance no matter what. There’s nothing like a best friend since high school (or a mom!) to make you feel better when you’re feeling bad about yourself…whether it’s your looks, your job, your hang-ups, or any other issues. Having people you can be your silliest with, your saddest with, or your grumpiest with…who will still be there for you…is a huge support system.

People who “get you.” There’s also nothing like those people you’ve known so long you hardly have to speak to know what’s going through each other’s minds. People who hear what you’re really saying (underneath what you’re saying saying) and who can tell when something’s wrong even if you aren’t admitting it. People who laugh at the same things you do. People you don’t have to “try” around.

Company. It never ceases to amaze me how, when I’m in one of those “I don’t want to be around anyone” moods, being around people always makes me feel better. We’re social creatures, and being around others can take us outside of ourselves, give us a sense of connection, and helps us feel understood and empathized with.

What do you get from your relationships with friends and family? What other happiness boosters have I missed?





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What I Learned from Cutting Our Budget in Half in One Week

Cutting your Spending[This is a guest post by my good friend Kelly Gurnett (a.k.a. Cordelia) of Cordelia Calls It Quits. Think you’ve got what it takes to be a guest poster? Contact Em at em [at] blondeandbalanced [dot] com to learn more about becoming a guest poster yourself!]


My husband and I never exactly lived a life of luxury.

I’m into couponing, eating every leftover in my fridge, and all the other frugal tricks I’ve learned from PF bloggers like Em, because (as I wrote for Em’s predecessor), I’ve realized that money really does equal happiness. Getting myself into a ton of credit card debt straight out of college was one of the stupidest moves I’ve ever made, because it tied me to a 9-to-5 I hated because it was the only way to earn enough money to pay my creditors. As soon as I realized that smart finances meant more freedom, you’d better believe I hopped aboard the PF train as fast as my little legs could jump.

That said? We were still your typical middle-class American couple. We ate out every weekend (usually a few times a weekend) because we’d worked hard all week (at jobs we hated), and dammit, we deserved to treat ourselves. We bought movie and concert tickets and clothes we didn’t really need, under the same justification. We weren’t rich, we weren’t poor; we were just “getting by” like too many American households do—managing to get the bills paid on time each month, slowly paying down our debt, but with not too much left over at month’s end.

Then my husband’s health issues put him on permanent disability. We had a feeling it might happen eventually, but not for many, many (many) years. And just like that—with no warning, as I was days away from finally quitting my job to pursue my dream of freelancing—half our income was gone.

Talk about a financial wakeup call.

What We’ve Learned from Our “Bare Bones” New Budget

Somehow, in the haze of shock and panic that was the following week, we went into financial crisis mode and managed to slash our budget fully in half over the course of a few days.

We sold my car, because there was no point in having a second car when my husband was no longer working, and used the proceeds to pay off my remaining credit card debt and the balance on my husband’s car. I campaigned my little heart out for more freelance work and put in 60 hour weeks between that and the day job. We slashed the hell out of our budget.

And the things I learned in doing this—and in living with our new “extreme” budget afterwards—were huge eye openers. Namely:

You really don’t need half the things you think you do. Like I said, I wasn’t exactly a member of the YOLO spending philosophy. I already thought I had our budget down pretty tight before disaster struck. But when disaster did strike, we realized—and fast—just how unimportant some of the things we thought of as “necessities” were.

We were paying premium prices for a cable package that got us 3 or 4 extra channels we liked—as well as dozens of others we never, ever watched. We were going to see movies in the theater that we just as easily could have rented for a dollar through Redbox, saving on ludicrous ticket and concession prices (as well as annoying fellow theatergoers). My husband had a Sirius radio subscription for his car, again largely for a few stations while all the rest went unlistened to.

Even the things that seemed less frivolous weren’t necessarily must-haves. We dramatically decreased our grocery budget, and you know what? It’s got me buying healthier, fresher food and taking the extra few minutes to actually make myself a meal rather than nuking a pre-made frozen one. I’m actually glad we were forced to pare down on some things, because it’s got us making smarter choices.

When you’re living a life you really love, “stuff” doesn’t matter so much. When I was schlepping away at a job I hated for 40 hours a week, I felt like those dinners out, new outfits, etc. were necessary to keep my sanity and motivation up. But the only reason I needed them was because I was in a job I hated—it was a self-fulfilling prophecy. Once I started liking my life on a day-to-day basis, all that extra “stuff” just didn’t matter anymore.

Now that I’m focusing on the writing I love (yes, I actually did manage to quit in spite of our income setback!), I couldn’t care less if we spend a whole month of weekends eating in or if I never buy a new piece of clothing again. Because I’m happy just living my life. I have more time, I have more freedom, I’m more at peace—and if the price I have to pay for that is waiting to see Iron Man 3 until it comes out on DVD, that seems like a non-price to pay.

Lifestyle inflation can be reversed. Part of our problem was that we fell into the lifestyle inflation trap—with every raise I or my husband got, we bumped up our standard of living. Sure, we started paying more towards our cards, but we also gave ourselves a few extra treats. (Again, we’d earned it, right?) But after a while, an extra dinner each week stops feeling special. You get used to new “treats” awfully fast, and then you get bored with them.

Contrast that to now, when we allow ourselves a very modest (think: “Denny’s $2, $4, $6 menu”) meal out each week, and that’s it. When my husband found a coupon recently that got us Buy One Get One subs at Subway, he came home delighted at the fact that to get the deal, he had to buy a drink. Normally, if we hit up Subway, we bring the food home and don’t spring for drinks. But he’d actually gotten to order a take-home pop! We also love taking sandwiches to the local park to have a picnic lunch (cost: the gas it takes to drive a few miles)—and just sitting there in the sun watching the birds float on the water is infinitely more satisfying than any $50 dinner with drinks we ever had.

The Moral?

All those crazy minimalists out there are onto something. Not only is less sometimes more—but, when you have less, you sometimes begin to find much more in terms of appreciation, gratefulness, and joy than you would have ever thought possible.

Could you realistically live on half your current budget? How would you do it? What do you think you’d learn about your own spending?

CordeliaKelly Gurnett runs the blog Cordelia Calls It Quits, where she documents her attempts to rid her life of the things that don’t matter and focus more on the things that do. You can follow her on Twitter and Facebook and hire her services as a blogger extraordinaire here.



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