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2012 Goals: Writing & Blogging

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This year, my main writing goal is a little ambitious, and, quite possibly, a little unrealistic.

I want to write an article for a magazine.

Any magazine.

It could be a crappy local magazine; one that sits in those racks near the entrance of grocery stores that no one ever pays much attention to.  I don’t even care.  I just want to get into a magazine.

Of course, I would be quite thrilled if I got into a larger magazine.  I’m looking at you Shape, Oxygen, Fitness, Kiplinger’s, and Smart Money.  (I don’t think they’re looking back … yet.)

Here’s the deal:  I know I’m an average person and an average writer.  The guy that sits next to me at work could probably write just as good or better than me.  Many of you that are reading this can probably write much better than I can.

But I’ve always loved to write and something always draws me back to it, so I continue to do it.  I figure I should probably give this interest in writing the respect it deserves.

I’m okay with writing on this little blog, making some money writing on other blogs, and, hopefully, some day (this year), seeing my name in print in some little (or big, whichever) magazine.

That’d make me one happy wannabe writer.

Finally, there have been a few times in my real life (not online) where certain people have tried to make me feel bad about my blog, my writing, or that either or those two things are insignificant.

Those people suck.  I shouldn’t let them get to me.  Sometimes those people cause me to censor what I put on my blog.  That’s lame so I’m not going to let them impact my life like that anymore.  Because, you know what?  Haters gonna hate.  Also, I’m guessing I earn more from side hustle than they do from their full-time job.  Ouch.

Goal: Get an article into a magazine.
Goal: Write daily.
(Even if I don’t post daily.)
Goal: Be proud of blogging and writing; write whatever I want – not what I think I’m supposed to write.

(Also, I totes want that typewriter.  {Source})

On the Lending Tree Blog: 5 Money Saving Honeymoon Tips

Having just returned from my honeymoon, I thought I would kindly share some honeymoon budgeting tips!  In my latest article on the Lending Tree blog, I share 5 Money Saving Honeymoon Tips.  These tips are perfect for every budget – from zero to infinity!

Honeymooning is for EVERYBODY – even if you think you can’t afford a big tropical getaway, there are plenty of other ways to enjoy romantic alone time with your new husband or wife.

Check out my article on the Lending Tree Blog today!

5 Money Saving Honeymoon Tips

IMG_0746 a sneak peak of our honeymoon resort

Link: 5 Money Saving Honeymoon Tips

Amber’s 2011 Goals

Write, Write, Write. 

2011 will be the year of writing!  I love writing, but, like with everything else, I don’t get around to it as often as I like.  The hardest part is getting started (especially after a long day in cube land).  But, I NEED to write more.  I was meant to start this blog (after not writing for many, many years) and start freelance writing. 

The more I think about it, the more I realize it was meant to be.  I always had “writing folders” as a little kid.  I thought having a journal or diary was the coolest thing ever.  I won writing awards in high school.  Writing papers always came easy to me.  I was always in honors writing classes and even took elective classes in Advanced Creative Writing.  I seriously geek out over every word in On Writing Well (which I just recently discovered on the recommendation of one of my freelance editors).  I don’t care to ever be a famous author or even have people read what I have to say.  I just want to write.  And I want it to be good.

And even after all those writing “moments” in my life, I’m just now realizing that I need to be writing more.  It’s funny – although my career choice has lead me down a very non-creative path, I’m starting to merge that field with my true interests.

Find Balance. 

This blog is supposed to be about finding balance in life, health, and money.  Er, to me, it basically sounds like a personal finance blog.  I’ve got some great ideas for balance and lifestyle posts next year and I think it will take this blog in the direction I want it to go. 

Sometimes I forget that people are interested in all sorts of topics that will improve their life.  From putting an end to the never-ending week, to getting into a good routine, to eating more greens, to avoiding “cubicle butt”, to being more physical when you have a sedentary job, to getting organized, and the list goes on and on.  I TOTALLY GEEK OUT over things that help improve the little details in our day to day lives.  Yes, I am a nerd.

Find a Routine. 

For the longest time:

  • I’ve wanted to be a morning exerciser.
  • I’ve wanted to enjoy my Sundays instead of rushing around to prepare for the upcoming week.
  • I’ve wanted to feel structure in my day instead of just trying to get through it.
  • I’ve wanted to be more organized.
  • I’ve wanted to have more time to enjoy the things I love (family, reading, writing, Yoga, etc.)

You know what’s getting the way of those things?  My unorganized routine.  I could blame my flexible work schedule for the demise of my routine, but I’d be lying.  This is mostly what’s to blame:

  • procrastination
  • laziness
  • time sucks
  • disorganization
  • distractions

I want to live life to the fullest.  I lead a pretty stellar life right now, but I want to make it better.  In 2011, I’ll find a routine.

P.S. Rumor has it that there is a new phrase around town called “lifestyle design”?  I guess you could say I plan to design my lifestyle in 2011.

Love, Love, Love. 

Love is the essence of Christian faith, which I will spend my entire life trying to fulfill.  Sure, I love right now.  I love my fiancé, but sometimes I don’t care about his needs as much as I could or should.  I love my parents, but I’m learning to love them more.  I love my siblings, but I could give more. 

While I have a lot of love for everyone, sometimes that love is shadowed by the love for myself.  Right now, my needs are at the top of my list.  In 2011, I’d like to take some time to put others’ needs in front of my own.  It will be hard (and I’m sure becoming a mother down the road will improve my loving abilities naturally), but I think know it’s something I need to focus on more.  And getting married might teach me things I never knew about this whole love thing.

Get Married! 

No explanation necessary!  :)

Lose 10 pounds. 

Gosssshhh, I am so embarrassed at how cliché this goal is.  But, it’s one of my top goals for the first part of 2011.  It’s starting to get ridiculous.  If you follow my health and fitness blog (which I really don’t update … ever), then you know I am about 9 pounds heavier than I was before 1) moving in with G, and 2) studying for the CPA Exam.  Ohhhh-kayyyy, so it’s been like 6 months since my last exam and nothing has changed.  Not cool!  This WILL happen before the wedding!!!

It’s not because I haven’t been exercising or eating well.  I always exercise and eat well.  However, I only workout 3-4 times per week instead of 5-6.  I eat clean maybe 60% of the the time instead of 80% of the time.  By making small tweaks like these (which should be easy, I used to easily live like this), I know I can lose those last 9 annoying pounds. Update:  Since writing this and cleaning up my eating, I lost 2 pounds.  Only 7 more to go.  In your face, extra poundage!!!

Financial Goals:

  1. Wedding budget:  Stay under wedding budget of $20,000.  Yikes.
  2. Combine finances:  Combine finances without killing each other. ;)
  3. Start house-hunting:  Yes!  We are on track to have our down payment ready next December.  In December 2011, we plan to start house-hunting!!!!! YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  SO EXCITED!!!
  4. Make a lot more side income:  I’m looking at you, blog.
  5. Start a dog fund:  We’re going to buy a big, black mutt pretty soon after we buy the house.  Dogs are expensive.  But, they’re super cute and I love them, so we’ll make it work through a savings plan.

What are YOUR goals for the new year?

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