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Amber’s 2011 Goals

Write, Write, Write. 

2011 will be the year of writing!  I love writing, but, like with everything else, I don’t get around to it as often as I like.  The hardest part is getting started (especially after a long day in cube land).  But, I NEED to write more.  I was meant to start this blog (after not writing for many, many years) and start freelance writing. 

The more I think about it, the more I realize it was meant to be.  I always had “writing folders” as a little kid.  I thought having a journal or diary was the coolest thing ever.  I won writing awards in high school.  Writing papers always came easy to me.  I was always in honors writing classes and even took elective classes in Advanced Creative Writing.  I seriously geek out over every word in On Writing Well (which I just recently discovered on the recommendation of one of my freelance editors).  I don’t care to ever be a famous author or even have people read what I have to say.  I just want to write.  And I want it to be good.

And even after all those writing “moments” in my life, I’m just now realizing that I need to be writing more.  It’s funny – although my career choice has lead me down a very non-creative path, I’m starting to merge that field with my true interests.

Find Balance. 

This blog is supposed to be about finding balance in life, health, and money.  Er, to me, it basically sounds like a personal finance blog.  I’ve got some great ideas for balance and lifestyle posts next year and I think it will take this blog in the direction I want it to go. 

Sometimes I forget that people are interested in all sorts of topics that will improve their life.  From putting an end to the never-ending week, to getting into a good routine, to eating more greens, to avoiding “cubicle butt”, to being more physical when you have a sedentary job, to getting organized, and the list goes on and on.  I TOTALLY GEEK OUT over things that help improve the little details in our day to day lives.  Yes, I am a nerd.

Find a Routine. 

For the longest time:

  • I’ve wanted to be a morning exerciser.
  • I’ve wanted to enjoy my Sundays instead of rushing around to prepare for the upcoming week.
  • I’ve wanted to feel structure in my day instead of just trying to get through it.
  • I’ve wanted to be more organized.
  • I’ve wanted to have more time to enjoy the things I love (family, reading, writing, Yoga, etc.)

You know what’s getting the way of those things?  My unorganized routine.  I could blame my flexible work schedule for the demise of my routine, but I’d be lying.  This is mostly what’s to blame:

  • procrastination
  • laziness
  • time sucks
  • disorganization
  • distractions

I want to live life to the fullest.  I lead a pretty stellar life right now, but I want to make it better.  In 2011, I’ll find a routine.

P.S. Rumor has it that there is a new phrase around town called “lifestyle design”?  I guess you could say I plan to design my lifestyle in 2011.

Love, Love, Love. 

Love is the essence of Christian faith, which I will spend my entire life trying to fulfill.  Sure, I love right now.  I love my fiancé, but sometimes I don’t care about his needs as much as I could or should.  I love my parents, but I’m learning to love them more.  I love my siblings, but I could give more. 

While I have a lot of love for everyone, sometimes that love is shadowed by the love for myself.  Right now, my needs are at the top of my list.  In 2011, I’d like to take some time to put others’ needs in front of my own.  It will be hard (and I’m sure becoming a mother down the road will improve my loving abilities naturally), but I think know it’s something I need to focus on more.  And getting married might teach me things I never knew about this whole love thing.

Get Married! 

No explanation necessary!  :)

Lose 10 pounds. 

Gosssshhh, I am so embarrassed at how cliché this goal is.  But, it’s one of my top goals for the first part of 2011.  It’s starting to get ridiculous.  If you follow my health and fitness blog (which I really don’t update … ever), then you know I am about 9 pounds heavier than I was before 1) moving in with G, and 2) studying for the CPA Exam.  Ohhhh-kayyyy, so it’s been like 6 months since my last exam and nothing has changed.  Not cool!  This WILL happen before the wedding!!!

It’s not because I haven’t been exercising or eating well.  I always exercise and eat well.  However, I only workout 3-4 times per week instead of 5-6.  I eat clean maybe 60% of the the time instead of 80% of the time.  By making small tweaks like these (which should be easy, I used to easily live like this), I know I can lose those last 9 annoying pounds. Update:  Since writing this and cleaning up my eating, I lost 2 pounds.  Only 7 more to go.  In your face, extra poundage!!!

Financial Goals:

  1. Wedding budget:  Stay under wedding budget of $20,000.  Yikes.
  2. Combine finances:  Combine finances without killing each other. ;)
  3. Start house-hunting:  Yes!  We are on track to have our down payment ready next December.  In December 2011, we plan to start house-hunting!!!!! YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  SO EXCITED!!!
  4. Make a lot more side income:  I’m looking at you, blog.
  5. Start a dog fund:  We’re going to buy a big, black mutt pretty soon after we buy the house.  Dogs are expensive.  But, they’re super cute and I love them, so we’ll make it work through a savings plan.

What are YOUR goals for the new year?

The Top 10 Realest Personal Finance Bloggers of 2010

I’ve been working with Krystal from Give Me Back My Bucks on something really cool!

We see lots of top blog lists floating around the blogosphere highlighting various personal finance blogs.  These lists are usually AWESOME, but they often lack a certain genre of personal finance blogging:  personal finance blogs with a voice behind the words, a story behind the name, and real-life scenarios that people can relate to.

So, we thought it would be fun to come up with a different list.  Enter: 

The Top 10 Realest Personal Finance Bloggers!

Without further ado, here are the Krystal & Amber’s Top 10 Realest PF Blogs of 2010 (in no particular order):

Girl with the Red Balloon

Punch Debt in the Face

Young and Thrifty

Paying Myself

Well-Heeled Blog

Enemy of Debt

Stacking Pennies

Small Steps for Big Change

Budgets are Sexy

Fabulously Broke in the City 

    (Check out Krystal’s blog post with the list and her reasonings behind the picks HERE.)

Girl with the Red Balloon

Red is recently married and finishing up her college degree.  Red is ultra-frugal and a budding minimalist.  The stories on her blog about how she struggles to make ends meet while studying for her degree are real and inspiring.

Punch Debt in the Face

Well-known for his hilarious stick figure drawings, “Debt Ninja” is also fun to read and a nice break from normal personal finance posts.  He isn’t afraid to piss anyone off either and recently called broke people “stupid”.  His articles are refreshing and fun – a skill that’s tough to combine with personal finance topics!

Young and Thrifty

Young from Young and Thrifty is a twenty-something Canadian who started her blog because her sisters didn’t know the difference between a debit and a credit card!  Although, I’m sure they know now (since their sis is a PF blogger and all), Young has also become and awesome blogger through the process.  And her PF ramblings and link love posts are often my favorite even if they are just ramblings. ;)  

Paying Myself

Jenn is a new lawyer living in Canada.  Although she thought she was going to be rich as a lawyer, her post titled “I Thought I Was Supposed to be Rich” was very popular around the blogosphere.  Her frequent posts are inspiring to any reader!

Well-Heeled Blog

I have to admit that Well-Heeled was one of the first blogs I ever read when I became introduced to the PF blogosphere.  Although Well-Heeled doesn’t reveal much personal financial information, her posts are still intriguing and interesting.  From her love for food and the argentine tango, to her recent interest in fitness and traveling, you’ll find tons of various topics to keep you coming back for more! 

Enemy of Debt

Brad from Enemy of Debt has to be one of the nicest bloggers around.  He is always super nice and never comes off as a know-it-all.  Brad joined J. Money from Budgets are Sexy in their 2nd annual Christmas Stimulus contest this year and is fresh off of a No Restaurant challenge.  Not only is he nice, he’s also giving and writes an interesting blog – a great combo! 

Stacking Pennies

SP was also one of the first bloggers I read.  SP has been around the PF blogosphere for a long time!  With consistent posts that venture out into different life topics – like living an active lifestyle and planning a wedding – SP is about as real as it gets. 

Small Steps for Big Change

SS4BC has taken on some crazy challenges, most notably her No Eating Out challenge of 2010.  She went a staggering EIGHT MONTHS without eating out!  Wow!  That is something I could never do.  SS4BC’s posts really let you into her life and she doesn’t hold anything back. 

Budgets are Sexy

Almost everyone knows about good ‘ol J. Money’s blog.  Not only is J hilarious, his posts don’t hold ANYTHING back!  J also recently started a new career – as a full-time blogger!  J’s getting fired story was crazy, entertaining, and shocking.  If you somehow haven’t been to his blog yet, check it out!  You’re in for a treat.

Fabulously Broke … in the City

I have to admit: sometimes FB rubs me the wrong way.  Especially when she called the Jersey Shore characters “morons”.  I’m not debating their intelligence, it just drives me nuts when people go around calling others names when they haven’t even met them.  That being said, FB is one helluva PF blogger.  Even with sometimes controversial posts, she puts a lot of work into her blogging and is a great PF blog to follow.

Carnival of Personal Finance #289: New Year’s Eve Traditions

Welcome to the 289th edition of the Carnival of Personal Finance!

If you’re new to Blonde & Balanced, feel free to take a look around. I’m Amber and I blog about spending wisely and leading a balanced lifestyle. A few fun tidbits about me: I passed the CPA exam this year, I’m getting married next June, I live in Kansas City, and I love to workout … among many other interests. ;)

new-years-eve In honor of the New Year that is fast approaching, this week’s carnival theme is based on popular New Year’s Eve traditions. Enjoy!

EDITOR’S PICKS

  • Mark from Buy Like Buffett presents The Number One Reason Why Your Blog Isn’t Making Any Money. (Great article from Mark on how to increase the income you generate from your blog – no matter how big or small!)
  • Shaun from Money Cactus presents Do Nothing and Grow Wealthy, and says, “Doing nothing can actually be a lot harder than you think, but sometimes doing nothing is the best way to create real wealth.”  (One of the biggest techniques that helped me get out of debt was doing nothing – otherwise known as avoiding places where I tended to overspend.)
  • Henry Truc from Go Banking Rates presents Common Financial Myths Debunked – Part 2: Mortgage Loans. (An interesting article about common myths associated with mortgage loans.  Henry takes what could be a dry topic and turns it into an interesting article – not an easy feat!)
  • Mike Piper from Oblivious Investor presents Retiring (at 65) Isn’t Supposed to Be Easy, and says, “We hear all the time about how most people aren’t saving enough for retirement. What if we just abandoned the idea that retiring at 65 and traveling the world is a normal thing to do?” (I love the idea of retiring early and Mike expands on this topic in his article.  Why do we have to play by the rules?  Why can’t we make our own rules?)
  • Mike from The Financial Blogger presents Running Multiple Blogs, Earning 6 Figures, Working Less Than 40 Hours – A How To Guide To Financial Freedom, and says, “An extensive look at how to build a strong internet business empire. Everything from hiring writers to finding creativity to put together blog posts.” (Mike has put together an awesome guide on how to manage several successful blogs while working full-time.  He goes beyond the usual “make a writing schedule” advice and provides in-depth tips on how to generate ideas and increase your writing efficiency.)

BUDGETING & MONEY MANAGEMENT – THE MIDNIGHT KISS

Ah, the midnight kiss. Like budgeting with your money, you can’t go blow all your kissing on someone that doesn’t mean anything to you! You have to search long and hard for that perfect person before you decide to give to them your midnight kiss. They have to earn it, just like stores, companies, and products have to work for your hard-earned money!

SAVING & CREDIT – RESOLUTIONS

Many of the most popular New Year’s resolutions involve saving more money or paying off credit card debt.  Maybe the posts below can help you conquer both!

  • Jenn D from Smart Balance Transfers presents Common Balance Transfer Mistakes, and says, “This article takes a look at three mistakes people make when using balance transfer credit cards and shows them how to avoid them.”
  • Marjorie from CardHub.com presents New to Credit Guide, and says, “My submission answers a variety of questions for people with limited or no credit history. There are a number of steps you can take to help build your credit, no matter what your situation.”
  • Stu from pennywise2pennyworth.com presents Question for the Ages: Paying off Debt or Saving, and says, “To save or pay off debt? I ran the numbers see what I found out!”
  • Trent Green from Money for Regular People presents Any Credit Card Strategy Should Include Paying Off Your Balance Each Month, and says, “Should you pay with cash and avoid credit cards at all costs? Not necessarily. Paying by credit card offers some unique advantages, but only if you’re committed to paying your bill each month in full and on time.
  • The Smarter Wallet from The Smarter Wallet presents 3 Good Reasons Not To Hide Money Under Your Mattress, and says, “Why we should not hide our stash of cash under our mattress!”

INVESTING – AULD LANG SYNE

The song Auld Lang Syne literally means “days gone by” or “old times”.  Let’s forget all those bad investing memories of the past and move onward and upward. Here’s to a great economy in 2011 and beyond!

  • Russ Thornton from The Wealthcare Revolution presents Understanding Monte Carlo Simulation – Part 2 of 7, and says, “This is the 2nd in a 7-part series on understanding monte carlo simulation and how it can help you make smarter financial and investment decisions.”
  • Sara Nunnally from Smart Investing Daily presents Three Investment Predictions for 2011 Put to the Test , and says, “Three investment predictions for 2011… emerging markets, information technology and bonds.”
  • Sean Smarty from Grow Money presents Advantages of Index Funds.
  • Roger Wohlner from Chicago Financial Planner presents Where to Invest in 2011? – I’m Clueless, and says, “This is the time of year when financial magazines and the cable business news shows are filled with tips on where to invest in 2011. I’m not sure why a change in the calendar from December 31 to January 1 makes much difference for your investments. Where should you invest in 2011? If this means what will be the hot stocks, funds, ETFs, or market sectors, I don’t have a clue.”
  • Div Guy from The Dividend Guy Blog presents 3 Reasons Why I Go Dividend Investing in 2011, and says, “A synopsis of my currently revised investment strategy.”
  • Mike from Do Not Wait presents Retirement Planning – Where Do You Start?, and says, “A look at how you can get started with your retirement planning right now.”
  • Adam from Magical Penny presents Beginning Investing, and says, “This week I’d like to submit a transcript of a conversation Austin of Foreigner’s Finances blog and I had. In the interview we talk about about investing as a twenty-somethings and the differences between money in the U.S. and the UK.”
    FRUGALITY – BLACK EYED PEAS

Legend has it that if you eat Black Eyed Peas on New Year’s Day, you’ll have good luck all year long.  And it doesn’t hurt that peas are about as cheap as food comes, so frugalites everywhere can rejoice!

  • Clint from Accumulating Money presents 5 Easy Ways to Cut Down Grocery Costs.
  • Super Saver from My Wealth Builder presents Inexpensive Christmas Activities, and says, “While buying presents can be expensive, there are lots of activities we do at Christmas time that are low or no cost.”
  • Steve Zussino from Grocery Alerts Canada presents Is Buying Organic Really Worth It?, and says, “Organic food is an interesting option for those who are more and more concerned with their health as well as the environment. But many people wonder whether it’s really worth paying more for these products. Is organic food simply a passing trend, or has it become a necessity to ensure good health? Here are the advantages and disadvantages of this type of food.”
  • Elizabeth G (Modern Gal) from Modern Gal presents Avoiding Last Minute Financial Temptations.
  • Matt from Bruce Bucks presents Confession Monday: $35 Hair Cut.
    DEBT – THE BALL DROP

He he – get it?  The ball drop?  As in, you drop the ball when you’re too deep in debt?  No?  ;)  

    REAL ESTATE – FIREWORKS

I think we all know there’s been some fireworks in the real estate industry over the past year or so!  Although the market is down, first-time buyers are snagging great deals and interest rates.  There is an upside to every bad situation!

OTHER

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2010 Goals Recap

As 2010 comes to a close, it’s time to take inventory of the year and see how things went.  2010 was a pretty monumental year for me, what with the CPA passing and the engagement and starting the new blog and all (no more Carrie … On The Cheap!).

So, did I accomplish everything I wanted to in 2010?  Let’s recap my goals for the year that I set back in December 2009:

  • Pass the CPA Exam. CHECK!
  • Implement/Use Quicken software.  CHECK!
  • Max out Roth IRA.  CHECK!
  • Move blog to self-hosting.  CHECK!
  • Reveal self on blog.  CHECK!
  • Become a fashionista.  SORTA CHECK.
  • Makeover bathroom.  FAIL.
  • Make a daily to-do list.  SORTA CHECK.
  • Stretch everyday.  FAIL.

(Original goals post is here.)

What did I accomplish? 

I passed the CPA exam (YAY!).  I started using Quicken (which I love).  I maxed out my Roth IRA this year (score).  I’ve obviously moved my blog to self-hosting and revealed myself on my blog.  I go by my real name everywhere in the blogosphere and I’ve shared a lot of personal details on the bloggie.  I’ve even told a couple people in “real” life about the bloggie (hi Noelle and Mom … if you’re reading. Heh.).

What did I almost accomplish? 

As far as becoming a fashionista … I didn’t do that, per se. What I did was embrace my style.  During the summer, I live in tank tops, cute flip flops, skinny jeans and/or shorts.  I take extra care to pick out the cutest tank tops and flip flips since that’s pretty much my entire wardrobe. ;)   In the winter, it’s a different story.  I’ll do anything to stay warm and I don’t care what that looks like.  All I can say is that I am SO happy those Ugg boots (and cheap knock-offs for us frugalistas) are in style!   Who cares?  It’s my style.  What I’ve realized is that all that really matters is that I know what I like.  I know I like a simple, clean style (a la Jennifer Aniston).   And, to me, embracing your style is becoming a fashionista in itself.

And thanks to the apps on my new Android phone, I’ve gotten a LOT better at making to-do lists.

What didn’t I accomplish? 

Even though 2010 was totally awesome, I didn’t meet all of my goals for the year.  I decided not to makeover the bathroom.  I just don’t care to since I know we’ll only be in this apartment for another year or so.  (But you can bet that I’m going to be decorating the bathrooms in our new house like crazy!) 

I also didn’t stretch every day.  G and I started the year off right.  We stretched together for 5 to 10 minutes every night for a couple of months.  It didn’t last.  On the bright side, I took Yoga more often this year than I ever have in my life.  So, not all is lost.

What’s next?

A post on my 2011 goals is coming shortly, but for now I’ll leave with you with a sneak peek at my homemade, beautiful wedding invitations (including reception and RSVP cards) that are saving me HUNDREDS of dollars!  The best part?  I love, love, LOVE them!

9sjk (source: ME!)

Team Mr. & Mrs. G: More Thoughts on Combining Finances

It’s clear from the comment section on my last post about combining finances with your spouse/significant other is a hot topic.  But what’s not so clear are the rules to follow when you do combine finances.  Combine it all?  Combine some?  Or not at all?

Even though I am nervous about the new venture, we will combine our finances 100%.  There was never really a question as to if we will or won’t, since we became serious in our relationship, we knew we’d combine our finances after marriage.

Here’s why:

  • We’re all about that whole “we’re a team, let’s do this together, ra ra sis boom bah” thing.
  • We believe that separate finances drive a wedge between you and the other person.
  • We trust each other.
  • We are sick of splitting things down the middle (yay for never having to ask the waitress to split the tab again!).
  • It is how we were both raised and we think it works – especially if you plan to start a family.
  • It fosters communication.

After stating all of that, we don’t disagree with others who choose to have separate finances.  I am not implying that those who have separate finances are not trustworthy or a team.  Everyone is different, yo – that’s why the world is so fabulous!

What do you think of our reasons to combine finances?